8 Tips for Getting Off the Couch and Chasing Your Dreams

8 Tips for Getting Off the Couch and Chasing Your Dreams8 Tips for Getting Off the Couch and Chasing Your DreamsGetting trapped in a rut happens easily. Like quicksand, it can suck you in almost instantaneously and leave you little chance to escape.At Forte Strong, we strive to get young peoplesuffering from failure to launch back on track. We teach them valuable yet basic life skills that allow them to gain confidence, clarity, and eventually independence. While this may seem like a very specific audience, the lessons we teach can apply to people in varying stages of life.Grab Hold of Your FutureAt some point or another, weve all been lulled into complacency we accept life as good enough even if evidence points to the contrary. We stay at the same job out of comfort we dont strive for something greater because its too hard or because of some past setback.Settling is much easier than struggling. But sooner or later, good enough will no longer suffice, and that comfortable groove will give way to restlessness. Theres always a way out of a funk. In order to get off the couch and departure following your dreams again, you just have to be willing to put in the work to do it.A study by CPP, Inc. reports that 80 percent of respondents claim a vibrant career will bring fulfillment and enjoyment to their lives. The same survey notes that 53 percent believe their careers ultimately define them as people. In the end, a healthy outlook on the job can trickle down into other aspects of your life.Something those we teach eventually learn is that the best place to find passion, energy, and motivation is through the work itself. These eight tips will make you the best version of yourself, both professionally and personally. Nobody owes you anything. A survey by the Workplace Accountability Study estimates that 91 percent of respondents believe accountability is one of their organizations top development needs. Playing the victim is often easier than taking responsibility. But it wont get you very far, regardless of what has happened in your life. Learn to hold yourself accountable, and youll already be ahead of the pack. Mistakes happen. Youre going to make mistakes, so come to terms right now with that fact that theyre part of life. The cool thing is, mistakes are usually your best teachers, and they indicate that youre trying at life instead of resting on your laurels. Fear is a liar. Fear has its place, but you should never be beholden to it. If you let your fear control you, it will stop you from progressing and will weaken your resolve to try new things and to become a new person. You are stronger than you think. Human beings are capable of extraordinary things. Theyre also capable of convincing themselves theyre not. Its your character - not your failures - that ultimately defines and illustrates your value. Use that untapped potential to rise to the occasion. Responsibility is empowering. Make no mistake responsibility can be terrifying at firs t, but the mora you take on, the more capable youll feel and the more youll believe you can accomplish. Skills can be learned. Very few things in life cant be taught If you dont have a skill, chances are pretty good you can learn it. The key is figuring out what you want to accomplish so you know what skills to acquire. Once you know, the path becomes much clearer. Persistence pays. By that same token, youre not going to learn everything overnight, so dont feel you have to. Most skills are cognitive processes that become stronger each time you use them. I was once told by successful entrepreneur Peter Voogd that only 5 percent of the worlds population actually writes down goals. Those 5 percent make more than the other 95 percent of the world combined. Which group would you rather be part of? Dont take yourself too seriously. Feel free to laugh at yourself sometimes Life is what you make it - whether its fun and exciting or peaceful and serene, its yours to enjoy. If you dont, who else will?Its easy to get discouraged. Its easy to make life easy. But if something doesnt challenge you, it doesnt change you. Putting the aforementioned methods into place both at work and at home will make those challenges less daunting.So dont get caught in the trap of a downward spiral toward emptiness and pity. Get off the couch, and get on with life.Matthew Arrington is the executive director and co-founder of Forte Strong, the worlds first failure-to-launch program for men who struggle to leave their parents homes or find it difficult to become independent. Forte Strong uses a proprietary coaching model to help students find purpose and direction, guide parents and families in empowering their sons, and ultimately create healthier family dynamics. Matthew resides in sunny St. George, Utah.